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henkcobra Royal Member of BonBon

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dragonfly Rank: Super Veteran
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xivk Royal Member of BonBon

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Sorry to hear that henk, hope she goes peacefully. T_T _________________ Fursona Info.
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Ashton Gray Royal Member of BonBon

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I hope both your grandmothers find some measure of peace in their passing. I'll say a prayer for the both of them. _________________ Silentium est aurum |
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TheBashfulFeline Rank: Mr. Fabulous

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Poor Henk!! *huggles so lovingly* I hope you can get through this. _________________ I'm not dead, just.... Hibernating. ON the MOON. :3 Luna's bum. |
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MrWolf12 Royal Member of BonBon

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My deepest wises to you and yours for peace during these trying times. |
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GoldenRodDog Royal Member of BonBon

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my utmost sympathies and come back when you are ready...take your time and only come back when you have recovered. _________________ You sure this is a good bone or not. |
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Rune174 Royal Member of BonBon

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My condolences Henk. I only lost my grandmother 6 years ago to cancer, so it must be very hard on you. _________________
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henkcobra Royal Member of BonBon

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Corran Royal Member of BonBon

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I'm sorry for your loss. _________________ Go on. Tell me how you really feel. |
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Aaron_Thom Royal Member of BonBon

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DesertWolf Rank: Super Veteran
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You have my deepest sympathies for your loss Henk. _________________ “If you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of.”
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cheesecaked Rank: Super Veteran
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sorry for your loss...
My her soul rest in peace _________________ My Fursona http://forums.pleasurebonbon.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=100410#100410
How dare they use casment window designs,
it's so last century ಠ_ರೃ
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I just can't believe you left me here alone,
How in this world can I make it on my own?" |
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Rune174 Royal Member of BonBon

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If this sounds bad, I ask for forgiveness.
I am glad that her pain is over and that she no longer has to face it. _________________
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UltimaWolf0 Royal Member of BonBon

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green_fox Rank: Mr. Fabulous

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My condolences  _________________ click here |
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Foxonian Royal Member of BonBon

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My deepest sympathies go to you Henk and your family over your loss. |
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Tursi Royal Member of BonBon

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Henk, I hope it was quiet for her and that you were able to make it a little easier for her. The pain of death is one borne only by the living, it's ironic in a way. Be grateful that you knew in advance and hopefully there was time to do one last thing for her, if only to call or visit or even just send thoughts.
My own grandmother who raised me for half my childhood passed away early this year from a brain aneurysm. Unfortunately nobody told me for nearly two weeks... by then it was far too late to do anything, even the ashes had been picked up and taken care of. Work was exceptionally brutal about it, forcing me to continue my 14 hr days since there was no funeral to go back to.
I live about as far from where she was as is possible on the North American continent, so I only saw her once or twice a year. She had severe dementia and would just listen quietly on the phone when I called, though the nurse would sometimes break in and tell me she was listening. I am grateful that on my last visit, after about an hour, she started to recognize me, and smile, and look at pictures on my phone, and they even took a photo of the two of us there, so the last time I saw her was positive and I probably have the last photo of her ever taken.
You're a good fellow, Henk, you'll pull through and remember that her pain is over. Let worries, concerns, guilt if you have it, let this all flow away now, for it's all in the past and nothing can change that. Trust that you did do what had to be done and let only the good memories remain, for they are the only ones worth spending energy on. _________________ http://harmlesslion.com |
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goddess-ofthe-night Rank: Artist

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may she rest in peace, Henk.
'Er is altijd een ster die over je waakt
en niet alleen waakt maar je ook beschermt'
*huggles tightly* stay strong dear _________________ Dreams come True if you B E L I E V E in me...
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henkcobra Royal Member of BonBon

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my deepest condolences to you and your family henk i know how you must feel my grandfather died not too long ago i hope you are coping well and that you find peace _________________ wondering where the jackal came from: http://forums.pleasurebonbon.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=7940 updates here or there
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Mystic Royal Member of BonBon

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I'm sorry to hear for your loss Henk. _________________ Oh, I'd tell myself
What good do you do
Convince myself |
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